McCARTHY - Bette E. (nee Drennan) Of Williamsville, NY, October 3, 2020, beloved wife of Alvin J. McCarthy; dearest mother of Deborah E. (Robert) Gruver, Rebecca L. Jaeger (Phil Fronckowiak) and Timothy D. McCarthy; grandmother of Sarah (Michael) Johnson, Justin (Amy) Jaeger, Kimberly Rose and Robert (Tammy) Gruver; great-grandmother of Hannah and Alaina Rose, Madelyn, Aiden and Logan Johnson, Tavin and Maren Jaeger and Cassidy Gruver; daughter of the late Lee J. and Ethel P. (Steele) Drennan; sister of the late Donald Drennan and Dorothea (Arthur) Nisbet; also survived by nieces and nephews. No prior visitation. A Celebration of Life Service will be held at the convenience of the family. Arrangements by: ERIE COUNTY CREMATION SERVICE, (716) 824-6435, 873 Abbott Rd., Buffalo, NY 14220. Please share your condolences at: www.ERIECOUNTYCREMATIONSERVICE.com